OK - I know, a long long time since I was here. Had some issues in the real world. But don't think I haven't been back in action of late and enjoying myself.
Women can be such amazing and giving creatures that it can be very easy to enjoy time with them.
And I don't know if it is just me, but as women get older it seems they become more open to experimenting. Or perhaps they just become more confident about trying out some of their fantasies.
I'm not talking about head jobs in the carpark or sex on a deserted beach. Its more likely to be wanting to be tit-fucked for the first time or have a man shoot over her breasts. Or even trying anal sex.
Sh admitted to me that, in her early thirties, she wanted to be spanked. She somehow just knew she wanted it and that she'd enjoy it. So I did! Not really hard, but enough to give her a sting and to make sure she enjoyed the spanking and the sex. Actually one of her favourite things was to have her butt cheek pulled apart so it would open her cunt lips. She also loved being 'exposed' like that. But when she was over my lap, being fingered in her cunt and slapped on her butt then she could really come hard - and loud.
ML decided it was time to buy her first sex toy. Actually she ended up with more than one. I helped her pick them, in a toy store across town. The next morning she rang me and told me she'd been late for work - after administering 14 orgasms to herself with her two new vibrators! It had taken many long years for her to muster the courage to even consider buying such things. Actually I think a friend of hers had more or less recommended the purchase. I just had to open the door and take her shopping. Soon those toys became a regular part of our sex play and didn't she just love that!!!
I already wrote about Dx who loved to say things like 'cum on my face' - and mean it.
Dm found it much harder to embrace that fantasy. She really needed to feel comfortable... and then to embrace her inner slut. I asked her once what she thought about 'facials' and she warned me it was not a good idea to suggest such things to her. Then, many months later, at an age where some women are grandmothers already, she revealed that actually she really wanted to do that. She said she wanted to do it for me cos she knew I'd enjoy it.
I came on her face many times. Sometimes I would stroke my cock and shoot a load onto her cheeks and into her mouth, as she lay there with her tongue out trying to catch my semen like a porn star. Other times she would jerk me off and tell me "I want your cum on my face" until, same result, she would get it splashing over her face and into her mouth and even on her hair. Then more we did it the more she enjoyed the 'dirtiness' of it. It was no longer just about my pleasure and she even enjoyed the globs of dried cockjuice in her hair.
I think she even felt a little proud of herself for over-coming her fears and bringing her inner slut into the open.
Sh wasn't just interested in spanking. Soon she was ready to buy her first sex toys as well. But she let me know, and here was the thing about being older and understanding her needs, that she wanted big ones! So that's what I did - bought her a large-sized vibrator and an even bigger dildo. In fact the dildo was a kind of ridiculous size but that didn't stop her many times trying to force it into her cunt, sometimes with me assisting.
CD was the one who raised the idea of being pissed on. OK - amazing and kinda icky or some people. But it was her thing, she wanted to try it. Again, its about someone being comfortable with themselves and confident that they won't be judged. I caught her by surprise one afternoon. I put her on her knees in the shower and she was expecting to suck me off. She was a little shocked when my piss started to squirt over her but she never flinched and she took the whole lot. And afterwards she told me it had been exciting and thrilling. She didn't regret it at all and she'd enjoyed it - partly because she'd known she would.
Ss - you might recall her for my post on anal. Well, after a long time she not only was enjoying anal play but she was finally coming to terms with the fact she enjoyed it. So eventually she got to the point where, sometimes as soon as I arrived, she'd role onto her tummy and kinda poke her butt at me. I soon learned to read the signal and know she was after a nice long rimming while I fingered her cunt and stroked her clit. She always came explosively - even more so when later on I would eat her cunt and slide a finger deep into her already moistened anus.
KT asked me if I had ever fisted a woman. There was no doubt how that was going to turn out. A woman in her mid-thirties, she'd decided she wanted to try being fisted and, hard to believe but true, she wanted me to assist. With patience and lot of lube I was quite surprised to get my entire hand in her cunt, rubbing her clit at the same time as she moaned and writhed. She came but it was somewhere way down deep inside her. In fact, afterwards it was like she couldn't even remember some of the play or even her orgasm. But I was in no doubt that she'd climaxed. I guess that is why some women go back again for fisting - the incredible intensity of the orgasm that can result.
My point is, these woman all relaxed and embraced their fantasies and gave me the honour of helping to bring them to real life. I am sure that being a little older, and knowing what they wanted most of all, made all the difference.
See how amazing women can be in sex play when they allow themselves to be?
Thursday 28 May 2015
Saturday 13 October 2012
3somes are fun
Sometimes women can be shy creatures. And sometimes they just want something so bad, or are so willing to please, that they overcome that reserve and really enjoy themselves.
Given the way sex is treated in many western societies, and the stereotypes women are told they should match I can truly say I am surprised, as I look back, at the number of woman I've known who are (or were) so open about their sexuality that they were happy to engage in a threesome.
Sometimes they wanted to be the centre of attention. Other times they were more interested in watching two other people fuck. A few times they didn't know what to expect but decided they wanted to experience something as kinky and adventurous as a threesome.
My experience has been that the secret to a really good threesome (or moresome) is to have at the centre a really strong couple. If at least two people in the play have a solid understanding and know what they want and what works then its so much easier for everyone to know what their roles are. That helps ensuring no-one feels left out.
Mostly I've played it so that one woman is the centre of attention. Then the other two people know their job is to focus on her. If one person in the couple gets a little less as a result then they both know that's something that can be taken care of later, perhaps after the 'third' has left.
With KT it worked a bit differently. KT had two male lovers (one was me) and she sometimes found it hard to choose between us. So one time she hit on the perfectly sensible idea of having us both at the same time! We two men met for the first time that evening. But there was still a shared understanding between us. KT had asked for the the threesome so she was our focus.
Both of us made sure to lavish attention on her. From time to time one would 'sit out' - like when I gave her a good hard spanking. But then I sent her to crawl over to him and show her her red backside and ask permission to suck his cock.
From that point on there was barely a time when she wasn't being ravaged by both men - licked, sucked, fucked, fingered, cocks in two holes at once, cumming over and over and each time barely allowed to get her breath back before two over-horny and excited males were pushing her to the edge yet again.
Most of my experiences came at the suggestion or request of a woman. Sure, a few times I raised the subject and was met with responses from keen interest to firm disinterest. But I am sure half or more of my threesome experiences came about because one or more of the women involved wanted it to.
Lb was a great example. She happily let it be known she wanted to play with one or the other of us (that is, me and my SO of the time). it only took a gentle comment that we 'play together' for her to ramp up and offer to let us both have her. And we did, more than once. We pushed her further than she had expected but that was OK - she had agreed we could both have her and so we took the opportunity to explore our own pleasures. And because we were so focussed on her it was probably easier for Lb to play along. She was even a little embarrassed to admit she liked anal but we refused to take no for an answer and she duly received a pretty hefty arse fuck - which she loved by the way!
AW was warm on the idea the first time I brought it up. I'd done so as a kind of test, to see how open-minded she was and how far she might eventually go. But I should have known better because AW certainly does love sex and plenty of it. Another man, another woman - AW loved both ideas and all the experiences she had. Though, as she was a somewhat passive lover, there was the issue of finding a third person who would be happy to make her the centre of attention and not the other way around.
Some women are put-off by the idea that they'll be the centre of attention. Its because they assume that they'll be on display or have their performance judged. Its a bit unfortunate because the real point of making the woman the centre of attention is to make sure she has a great time. She's not being judged - the other two people judge themselves by how much excitement and pleasure they can give.
SL has confessed to me that she finds the idea of being watched while fucking 'humiliating' but also really exciting. For her the two are closely linked as SL loves the idea of submitting openly to a couple.
Some women really love the idea of being the centre of the threesome - especially if there's two cock on offer. KT was exactly like that. AW too. SL is a long distance friend but I know she harbours a massive desire to have two guys with big cocks 'force' her to pleasure them both.
And as I say, some like to watch and find a threesome an opportunity to 'perve' or have maybe something like a 'live porn show' with them as the audience. Dm was keen for that reason. Jw was the same. For them the thrill comes from watching another woman being properly fucked by a man - even better if its 'their' man. Its almost as if by watching her they are watching themselves, seeing and enjoying the reactions and the responses of the extra woman as they watch her get cock and, invariably, add a little pleasure of their own making.
Whatever the motivation, as a male who does his own share of perving and enjoying kinky, adventurous sexual fun, there's no beating the thrill of finding a woman who is ready and eager to play threeway - whether the 'third' is to be a woman or a man. Its a special and thrilling insight into that woman's sexuality. Its always a pleasure and a privilege to be allowed to be a part of her exploring or enjoying that part of her sexuality, being a part of it when she finds she can relax and 'expose' herself enough to be able to give or receive twice the usual pleasure.
I know some women will never be able to enjoy that experience, or even want it.
Buit those who do know, as I do, its a special thing to welcome a 'third' into their sex play.
Given the way sex is treated in many western societies, and the stereotypes women are told they should match I can truly say I am surprised, as I look back, at the number of woman I've known who are (or were) so open about their sexuality that they were happy to engage in a threesome.
Sometimes they wanted to be the centre of attention. Other times they were more interested in watching two other people fuck. A few times they didn't know what to expect but decided they wanted to experience something as kinky and adventurous as a threesome.
My experience has been that the secret to a really good threesome (or moresome) is to have at the centre a really strong couple. If at least two people in the play have a solid understanding and know what they want and what works then its so much easier for everyone to know what their roles are. That helps ensuring no-one feels left out.
Mostly I've played it so that one woman is the centre of attention. Then the other two people know their job is to focus on her. If one person in the couple gets a little less as a result then they both know that's something that can be taken care of later, perhaps after the 'third' has left.
With KT it worked a bit differently. KT had two male lovers (one was me) and she sometimes found it hard to choose between us. So one time she hit on the perfectly sensible idea of having us both at the same time! We two men met for the first time that evening. But there was still a shared understanding between us. KT had asked for the the threesome so she was our focus.
Both of us made sure to lavish attention on her. From time to time one would 'sit out' - like when I gave her a good hard spanking. But then I sent her to crawl over to him and show her her red backside and ask permission to suck his cock.
From that point on there was barely a time when she wasn't being ravaged by both men - licked, sucked, fucked, fingered, cocks in two holes at once, cumming over and over and each time barely allowed to get her breath back before two over-horny and excited males were pushing her to the edge yet again.
Most of my experiences came at the suggestion or request of a woman. Sure, a few times I raised the subject and was met with responses from keen interest to firm disinterest. But I am sure half or more of my threesome experiences came about because one or more of the women involved wanted it to.
Lb was a great example. She happily let it be known she wanted to play with one or the other of us (that is, me and my SO of the time). it only took a gentle comment that we 'play together' for her to ramp up and offer to let us both have her. And we did, more than once. We pushed her further than she had expected but that was OK - she had agreed we could both have her and so we took the opportunity to explore our own pleasures. And because we were so focussed on her it was probably easier for Lb to play along. She was even a little embarrassed to admit she liked anal but we refused to take no for an answer and she duly received a pretty hefty arse fuck - which she loved by the way!
AW was warm on the idea the first time I brought it up. I'd done so as a kind of test, to see how open-minded she was and how far she might eventually go. But I should have known better because AW certainly does love sex and plenty of it. Another man, another woman - AW loved both ideas and all the experiences she had. Though, as she was a somewhat passive lover, there was the issue of finding a third person who would be happy to make her the centre of attention and not the other way around.
Some women are put-off by the idea that they'll be the centre of attention. Its because they assume that they'll be on display or have their performance judged. Its a bit unfortunate because the real point of making the woman the centre of attention is to make sure she has a great time. She's not being judged - the other two people judge themselves by how much excitement and pleasure they can give.
SL has confessed to me that she finds the idea of being watched while fucking 'humiliating' but also really exciting. For her the two are closely linked as SL loves the idea of submitting openly to a couple.
Some women really love the idea of being the centre of the threesome - especially if there's two cock on offer. KT was exactly like that. AW too. SL is a long distance friend but I know she harbours a massive desire to have two guys with big cocks 'force' her to pleasure them both.
And as I say, some like to watch and find a threesome an opportunity to 'perve' or have maybe something like a 'live porn show' with them as the audience. Dm was keen for that reason. Jw was the same. For them the thrill comes from watching another woman being properly fucked by a man - even better if its 'their' man. Its almost as if by watching her they are watching themselves, seeing and enjoying the reactions and the responses of the extra woman as they watch her get cock and, invariably, add a little pleasure of their own making.
Whatever the motivation, as a male who does his own share of perving and enjoying kinky, adventurous sexual fun, there's no beating the thrill of finding a woman who is ready and eager to play threeway - whether the 'third' is to be a woman or a man. Its a special and thrilling insight into that woman's sexuality. Its always a pleasure and a privilege to be allowed to be a part of her exploring or enjoying that part of her sexuality, being a part of it when she finds she can relax and 'expose' herself enough to be able to give or receive twice the usual pleasure.
I know some women will never be able to enjoy that experience, or even want it.
Buit those who do know, as I do, its a special thing to welcome a 'third' into their sex play.
Saturday 15 September 2012
Married women
I know some people will be uncomfortable about this topic. Maybe even offended. Let me say at the outset that I do not have a moral or ethical view about infidelity/cheating/polygamy. If you do have a view, and especially if you think its wrong and wicked, then you are welcome to your views. But they are not mine.
I don't know that I have ever thought of myself as a monogamous person or ever wanted to be monogamous. It is a complicated reality. Maybe its a choice and so its complicated in that aspect also.
I always cherish the opportunity to have a sexual encounter with a woman who is married or otherwise has a significant other (yes - I don't limit those ethical/moral decisions to only those with a formal marriage).
So I count myself lucky to have had sex with quite a few 'married' women over the years.
And yes, in many cases I've been with those 'married' women when I was married myself. In case it makes a difference, yes I've always accepted (even encouraged) my female significant others to take opportunities for 'playing away.' I've enjoyed having a partner who is so sexual and so sexy that she can happily fuck other men and then come back home to me.
Some of you may be surprised to learn how many 'married' women have fucked me. I think this sort of thing is more prevalent than a lot of us want to accept. A lot of our female friends and colleagues are not monogamous. Women, in particular, may be less 'faithful' (stupid word) than we would accept broadly in society.
I've enjoyed all of my experiences with married women very much. The biggest reason might be that these women are also not locked into attitudes about sexual fidelity. So its kind of reaffirming for me.
Its also really sexy and arousing to find a woman who is a little more open and accepting of her sexuality and her sexual needs. Because, my thinking is, those women are more likely to want to 'let go' and to express themselves 'between the sheets'.
Sometimes they can be nervous if they've not been with 'another man' for a long time. That's kind of sexy, too. Often I feel they don't believe they have to prove anything or worry that they have to 'please' their partner. They can just relax and fuck (and everything else) and get what they want. And that can be very sexy as well.
I am not saying married woman are selfish lovers. Far from it. But they can relax a bit more and step outside of the 'normal' routine they feel they owe to their husband/partner. So there's an opportunity for sexual adventure.
This really comes up with a woman who wants to fuck another man so that she can maybe indulge in some of her desires and fantasies. Maybe hubby is not interested. Or maybe these desires are secret because she cannot share them with hubby. Maybe he'll react badly or just say 'no'. Or maybe its just one of those things where we can live with someone for years but somehow still have little secrets and a little part of our brain that they never get to see.
Dx was like that. She was happily married but had needs that couldn't be fulfilled at home. They were extreme, kinky needs. I wasn't the only man she explored with. That didn't matter. What was thrilling was that we communicated so well and in depth. I set out to bring her fantasies to life and give her those new experiences. It was a bit of an honour to be truthful. And I like to think she went away happy with having finally broken though some barriers.
Other times of course a woman is just unhappy. Maybe its her way of getting back at a boyfriend of husband who's been treating her badly. This might be true even if 'he' doesn't know she is fucking someone else. KT was in that position, unhappy and wondering about other fish in the sea. Luckily for me this also meant exploring lots of new things that she didn't want to share with her 'significant other' because she was so unhappy with him. The sex was fantastic and she really was ready to be lead into all sorts of new things. I know she hitched up with another man soon after me and I know he would have found KT to be a most passionate and giving lover.
CH I know was a little bored in her relationship and had gotten hitched way too young. She was also exploring what was on offer in the 'sea'. For her (for both of us) the thrill was in having something new and exploring someone new. We kept in touch spasmodically afterwards and I know eventually she left that guy and went through a long series of relationships with other men. I think it was a case where CH knew she wasn't happy, she was looking for more and no one man seemed able to provide what she required.
It does not always work out so well. AH was one who chased me as a form of payback to her boyfriend. Ever after that experience I have been wary of those situations. AH had a body to die for. But the whole time I know she was thinking about 'him'. Her 'man' knew what was going on and had the good sense and patience to wait till AH got it out of her system. Maybe she just wasn't a very experienced lover. But whatever it was, with her and me there was something lacking, some absence of chemistry. That was a shame because I quite liked her and, as I said, she had a great body.
And some women are not cheating at all. Sometimes they have an open relationship or some other arrangement. Like I said at the top, I'm one man who is happy to know his 'wife' is in someone else's bed on a given night (maybe a man or maybe a woman).
Tx loved doing it with her husband in the room. I don't think it was a cuckold thing. It might have been. I didn't think it was right to ask if she didn't want to tell me up front. I enjoyed the experience very much, not least because that scene was new to me. Tx was a very vocal lover and I suppose that had something to do with the fact hubby was present and watching.
MN had a more 'conventional' open relationship. They both accepted the other person would have multiple partners. Only a few of her friends knew about this and so there was a real thrill to find that I had been 'chosen.' I am sure MN could have had her choice of many guys. And she had no problems with proposing to me in front of some of those friends. That was weird but, honestly, kind of a buzz as well. And the sex was great because MN knew she was chasing after as many new and varied experiences as she could get. So we communicated really well and got to try out a few new tricks that made us both very satisfied.
Mostly, though, there is a need when seeing a married woman to maintain discretion and security and secrecy. There is a small amount of thrill in that. its nothing to do with any idea of cuckolding another male or shitting in someone else's nest. A lot of it is to do with knowing there will be no strings.
And I also know what it is like to have to sneak around when a partner or significant other does not understand or approve of one's needs. Having been there myself I understand the drive a married person can have and also the need to be careful that the 'other operson' does not find out. So to be a part of that, on the other side, brings some personal satisfaction as well.
I know plenty of people just feel happier and safer and more content by being 'honest' or monogamous. And that is fine too (I guess). I mean, I am not criticising people for their choices if they don't want to engage in these extra-curricular activities.
But I am very glad that some women have come into my life at different times who have had these sorts of needs.
I don't know that I have ever thought of myself as a monogamous person or ever wanted to be monogamous. It is a complicated reality. Maybe its a choice and so its complicated in that aspect also.
I always cherish the opportunity to have a sexual encounter with a woman who is married or otherwise has a significant other (yes - I don't limit those ethical/moral decisions to only those with a formal marriage).
So I count myself lucky to have had sex with quite a few 'married' women over the years.
And yes, in many cases I've been with those 'married' women when I was married myself. In case it makes a difference, yes I've always accepted (even encouraged) my female significant others to take opportunities for 'playing away.' I've enjoyed having a partner who is so sexual and so sexy that she can happily fuck other men and then come back home to me.
Some of you may be surprised to learn how many 'married' women have fucked me. I think this sort of thing is more prevalent than a lot of us want to accept. A lot of our female friends and colleagues are not monogamous. Women, in particular, may be less 'faithful' (stupid word) than we would accept broadly in society.
I've enjoyed all of my experiences with married women very much. The biggest reason might be that these women are also not locked into attitudes about sexual fidelity. So its kind of reaffirming for me.
Its also really sexy and arousing to find a woman who is a little more open and accepting of her sexuality and her sexual needs. Because, my thinking is, those women are more likely to want to 'let go' and to express themselves 'between the sheets'.
Sometimes they can be nervous if they've not been with 'another man' for a long time. That's kind of sexy, too. Often I feel they don't believe they have to prove anything or worry that they have to 'please' their partner. They can just relax and fuck (and everything else) and get what they want. And that can be very sexy as well.
I am not saying married woman are selfish lovers. Far from it. But they can relax a bit more and step outside of the 'normal' routine they feel they owe to their husband/partner. So there's an opportunity for sexual adventure.
This really comes up with a woman who wants to fuck another man so that she can maybe indulge in some of her desires and fantasies. Maybe hubby is not interested. Or maybe these desires are secret because she cannot share them with hubby. Maybe he'll react badly or just say 'no'. Or maybe its just one of those things where we can live with someone for years but somehow still have little secrets and a little part of our brain that they never get to see.
Dx was like that. She was happily married but had needs that couldn't be fulfilled at home. They were extreme, kinky needs. I wasn't the only man she explored with. That didn't matter. What was thrilling was that we communicated so well and in depth. I set out to bring her fantasies to life and give her those new experiences. It was a bit of an honour to be truthful. And I like to think she went away happy with having finally broken though some barriers.
Other times of course a woman is just unhappy. Maybe its her way of getting back at a boyfriend of husband who's been treating her badly. This might be true even if 'he' doesn't know she is fucking someone else. KT was in that position, unhappy and wondering about other fish in the sea. Luckily for me this also meant exploring lots of new things that she didn't want to share with her 'significant other' because she was so unhappy with him. The sex was fantastic and she really was ready to be lead into all sorts of new things. I know she hitched up with another man soon after me and I know he would have found KT to be a most passionate and giving lover.
Lb felt very unsatisfied at home and maybe even like her hubby wasn't sufficiently desirous of her. She also had a few kinky desires and I think the sudden freedom and a desire to really 'get something for herself' made her even more adventurous and her demands even more extreme. I was happy to accommodate them all, of course!
It does not always work out so well. AH was one who chased me as a form of payback to her boyfriend. Ever after that experience I have been wary of those situations. AH had a body to die for. But the whole time I know she was thinking about 'him'. Her 'man' knew what was going on and had the good sense and patience to wait till AH got it out of her system. Maybe she just wasn't a very experienced lover. But whatever it was, with her and me there was something lacking, some absence of chemistry. That was a shame because I quite liked her and, as I said, she had a great body.
And some women are not cheating at all. Sometimes they have an open relationship or some other arrangement. Like I said at the top, I'm one man who is happy to know his 'wife' is in someone else's bed on a given night (maybe a man or maybe a woman).
Tx loved doing it with her husband in the room. I don't think it was a cuckold thing. It might have been. I didn't think it was right to ask if she didn't want to tell me up front. I enjoyed the experience very much, not least because that scene was new to me. Tx was a very vocal lover and I suppose that had something to do with the fact hubby was present and watching.
MN had a more 'conventional' open relationship. They both accepted the other person would have multiple partners. Only a few of her friends knew about this and so there was a real thrill to find that I had been 'chosen.' I am sure MN could have had her choice of many guys. And she had no problems with proposing to me in front of some of those friends. That was weird but, honestly, kind of a buzz as well. And the sex was great because MN knew she was chasing after as many new and varied experiences as she could get. So we communicated really well and got to try out a few new tricks that made us both very satisfied.
Mostly, though, there is a need when seeing a married woman to maintain discretion and security and secrecy. There is a small amount of thrill in that. its nothing to do with any idea of cuckolding another male or shitting in someone else's nest. A lot of it is to do with knowing there will be no strings.
And I also know what it is like to have to sneak around when a partner or significant other does not understand or approve of one's needs. Having been there myself I understand the drive a married person can have and also the need to be careful that the 'other operson' does not find out. So to be a part of that, on the other side, brings some personal satisfaction as well.
I know plenty of people just feel happier and safer and more content by being 'honest' or monogamous. And that is fine too (I guess). I mean, I am not criticising people for their choices if they don't want to engage in these extra-curricular activities.
But I am very glad that some women have come into my life at different times who have had these sorts of needs.
Sunday 19 August 2012
Ss enjoys cock (mine)
So I realised I might have spoken to early on my last (now rather long ago) blog. I commented on how much Ss likes a cock. She gave me another experience more recently which changed my mind a little. It also gave me a good opportunity to relate a whole actual event rather than just the highlights.
I arrived at Ss place and she greeted me at the door naked under her skimpy dress (this is pretty usual). Of course I started groping her in the door way and soon we moved to the loungeroom where she was responding just right with lots of heavy breathing and some moaning and just grabbing at me.
Then Ss decided to drag me off to her bedroom - no complaints! We both stripped off and she climbed onto the bed but not in the usual position. What I enjoy about Ss is that she loves having her cunt eaten and she is always ready to invite me in by gently parting her thighs for rme. Other times, when she signals enough interest in my cock, she lets me put my hands on her shoulders and press her down onto her knees in front of my erect cock.
This time was different. This time she wanted me on my back and once I was there Ss got into position and started licking my shaft and my balls. Soon I was totally rock hard and then she started playing with the head, her hands stroking my balls and my shaft.
Ss likes the idea she can tease me and make me wait. I like the fact that she feels in command when she takes me in her mouth so I never complain.
Soon she was taking more and more of me into her mouth. A few times she alternated with giving firm little kisses along the underside of my shaft. She also made sure to lick and suck on my balls.
We were both enjoying it. Ss was happily listening to my moans of pleasure and bobbing up and down on my cock, her hand also stroking softly up and down. She was taking a lot of time and a lot of effort to really make the most of my cock in her mouth - not quite worshipping but very much enjoying her power over me and the response she was getting from my cock with her warm, soft mouth.
Ss was there for a long time, feeling my hardness in her mouth and my throbbing. Once in a while she'd take me out for a proper handjob as if she wanted to inspect the results of her efforts. She likes to inspect me sometimes, the veins and the way a cock glistens when its covered in her lusty drool.
She went back to mouthing me and for a while I could feel my balls starting to boil. I wondered whether I should interrupt her or just keep going till I exploded and she would happily swallow all my cock cream.
But Ss in fact had another idea. She let me go now and moved into position. I could see what was coming and I was more than happy.
In a moment Ss was on top of me and impaling herself on my hard cock. There she proceeded to ride away to her hearts content, finding the right position where she can get me all inside her and feel me rubbing against her G-spot.
I was in rapture as her fevered mind took over and watching her big tits bounce and sway. I even helped her a bit by working my hands on her tits, firmly squeezing them and pinching her nipples just the way she likes.
I think Ss had 4 or more orgasms before she finally had to relent and collapsed on top of me, spent for now. Happily I had managed to hold off on my own climax and so I knew as soon as Ss was ready we be at it again.
I arrived at Ss place and she greeted me at the door naked under her skimpy dress (this is pretty usual). Of course I started groping her in the door way and soon we moved to the loungeroom where she was responding just right with lots of heavy breathing and some moaning and just grabbing at me.
Then Ss decided to drag me off to her bedroom - no complaints! We both stripped off and she climbed onto the bed but not in the usual position. What I enjoy about Ss is that she loves having her cunt eaten and she is always ready to invite me in by gently parting her thighs for rme. Other times, when she signals enough interest in my cock, she lets me put my hands on her shoulders and press her down onto her knees in front of my erect cock.
This time was different. This time she wanted me on my back and once I was there Ss got into position and started licking my shaft and my balls. Soon I was totally rock hard and then she started playing with the head, her hands stroking my balls and my shaft.
Ss likes the idea she can tease me and make me wait. I like the fact that she feels in command when she takes me in her mouth so I never complain.
Soon she was taking more and more of me into her mouth. A few times she alternated with giving firm little kisses along the underside of my shaft. She also made sure to lick and suck on my balls.
We were both enjoying it. Ss was happily listening to my moans of pleasure and bobbing up and down on my cock, her hand also stroking softly up and down. She was taking a lot of time and a lot of effort to really make the most of my cock in her mouth - not quite worshipping but very much enjoying her power over me and the response she was getting from my cock with her warm, soft mouth.
Ss was there for a long time, feeling my hardness in her mouth and my throbbing. Once in a while she'd take me out for a proper handjob as if she wanted to inspect the results of her efforts. She likes to inspect me sometimes, the veins and the way a cock glistens when its covered in her lusty drool.
She went back to mouthing me and for a while I could feel my balls starting to boil. I wondered whether I should interrupt her or just keep going till I exploded and she would happily swallow all my cock cream.
But Ss in fact had another idea. She let me go now and moved into position. I could see what was coming and I was more than happy.
In a moment Ss was on top of me and impaling herself on my hard cock. There she proceeded to ride away to her hearts content, finding the right position where she can get me all inside her and feel me rubbing against her G-spot.
I was in rapture as her fevered mind took over and watching her big tits bounce and sway. I even helped her a bit by working my hands on her tits, firmly squeezing them and pinching her nipples just the way she likes.
I think Ss had 4 or more orgasms before she finally had to relent and collapsed on top of me, spent for now. Happily I had managed to hold off on my own climax and so I knew as soon as Ss was ready we be at it again.
Saturday 30 June 2012
Women and cocks
Are you a woman who loves cocks? Not just finds them enjoyable. And not just the one you might be in a LTR with. I mean LOVE cocks?
Some women seem not to. Sometimes I have been with a woman who knew my cock would help her get the pleasure she wanted. But it seemed like just a tool for the job at hand. No real interest in touching or stroking or pleasuring it - let alone sucking it.
Should I be complaining?
Sometimes a woman loves a cock but really she just wants it inside her... in her cunt, fucking her and filling her.
AW was like that. She loved nothing more than being fucked in either her cunt or her arse. She explained to me that the feeling of my flesh in contact with her flesh was what really got her off. Fingers were pretty OK too and she didn't mind being eaten. But she could take a thrusting cock in her cunt for seemingly hours on end. Cumming over and over. There never seemed a good reason to deny her!
She did once give me a wonderful blowjob. She had me lie down and positioned herself over me. She took and her time and showed considerable skill. It was meant to be something very special, her way of thanking me for my kindness, her way of letting me know she wanted more of the trust and safety and incredible sexual pleasure we'd found together. She even swallowed my load all down in one go. It was fantastic. But I did sometimes feel like I'd have enjoyed more of that.
Dm was always very attentive to my cock. Several times she willingly sucked me to climax. Again, she was very good at it. It was like a gift from her to me and it was very enjoyable for that reason alone. Still, it seemed more like a kind of mechanical thing, going through the motions. She was very good at it (and I hope if she ever read this she'd not be hurt) but sometimes it felt like it was a duty. Not always - I recall one especially passionate and thrilling head job from Dm.
KA sometimes could be in the mood for playing with my cock. OK - so she loved to fuck and she could have many multiple orgasms - so, again, I am not complaining. But mostly what she wanted was my cock in her cunt. Not the worst thing in the world. And sometimes she'd decide it was my turn to get some oral pleasure. What she really loved on those occasions was mouthing and stroking my cock until I erupted all over her hand and my own stomach.
Some women do enjoy watching a man spurt, even if they watch him do all the work as well *grin*
But in truth KA never really sucked and played with my cock with the kind of passion other women can have.
Dl really loves a good hard cock. She always seemed to enjoy mine. But again mostly she wanted to fuck it and not play with it. She always got off hugely on being eaten - multiple orgasms would ensue. And Dl certainly did not mind playing with me or stroking me. IN fact she also rather enjoyed an occasional tit fuck where I'd shoot my load over her chest, neck and even her chin. But whenever we were having sex, and I was going down on her juicy cunt, she'd always get to the point where she wanted to cum even harder. At that point she would always cry out 'give me the cock, give me the cock' and I'd have to mount her (not a challenge I have to say as she was a very sexy lithe little thing) and shove my cock in as deep as it would go - fucking her endlessly while she came and writhed until she needed no more.
Ss was interested and curious about my cock from the start. But sometimes she can go for a long time without really paying it a lot of attention (as in weeks) - except, of course, for wanting to be fucked by it or wanting to ride on it! Sometimes its like she's making me earn a blow job, or as if I am asking for something that is so special it should be rationed. But once in a while she just wants to spend ages pleasuring and stroking and sucking my cock.
She tells me she loves the feeling of control. I get so close to exploding and Ss loves the idea that she can get me to that state. Actually Ss has wonderful hands a wonderful mouth. A couple of times we've been 69ing when she had let me go all the way and fill her mouth with my cum. I know she's loved it as well as me and she likes to swallow me down.
EM wasn't like that at all. The first time we were together she could not get me undressed quickly enough. In a flash her hands were on my cock. For a minute it seemed the only thing he was interested in. Her hands wrapped around my swollen shaft so longlingly. Her eyes lit up so bright. She stroked and tugged on it for several minutes and I am sure she'd have stayed there if I'd not wanted to get enjoy her body myself. EM loved everything about sex and that definitely included cocks.
SH is one who really loves and cocks and can't get enough - in her hands, in her mouth, in her cunt. SH is like a kid in a candy store when it comes to cocks. She sure loves playing and sucking on them. She can do it for absolutely ages - pleasuring, exploring. Sometimes she is slow and soft, other times she gets all aggressive and attacks. She seems to revel in everything about cocks - shape, size, hardness, feel, veins, the ridge underneath his knob... the lot! And she loves watching them cum, spurting semen all over her big tits so she can rub it into her skin.
Especially when she is on her knees. SH loves being on her knees in front of a hard cock!
She also loves to 69 and definitely cums so much quicker and harder when she has a cock shoved down her throat. Its the best of both worlds. For sure that is the way I see it!
SH really likes to make a cock all wet and slick. It can be her saliva or it can be her cunt juices. She loves making them wet and she loves having a wet cock rubbed all over her face. I sometimes wonder if she cannot decide whether she wants to use her hand or her mouth, but she enjoys switching back and forth so my cock stays listening and soaking wet for her.
JW is the same - a true lover of cocks and someone who delights in keeping a cock dripping wet with her saliva. JW is more a mouth operator when it comes to cock play. She loves a cock in her cunt. Of course she also loves to have one in her hands. Her eyes light up as well whenever she gets her hands on my cock. But she always makes sure to spread lots of her drool all over the shaft. And she'll stay on task for as long as required, as long as I want or can stand. It never seems to get boring for her. Sucking on a cock is what she desires and when she is in her zone its almost like what she lives for.
MI is a lot of fun when she has a cock on hand. She wants that cock somewhere, anywhere - hand, mouth cunt, arse. She gets into a kind of trance-like state and seems to forget everything else that is gong on around her. MI is another woman who adores the sight, feel and taste of a hard cock. She can't get enough. And she loves to make them wet as well. However, in her case what she likes is to scoop up some of her copious cunt juices and smear that all over the shaft. She really enjoys the taste of her cunt juices on a rack hard cock - almost as much as she does from stroking the cock and sinking to her knees to take it into her mouth.
As I always say, I have been lucky to experience so much and to experience so many different women with their different likes and desires.
Some women seem not to. Sometimes I have been with a woman who knew my cock would help her get the pleasure she wanted. But it seemed like just a tool for the job at hand. No real interest in touching or stroking or pleasuring it - let alone sucking it.
Should I be complaining?
Sometimes a woman loves a cock but really she just wants it inside her... in her cunt, fucking her and filling her.
AW was like that. She loved nothing more than being fucked in either her cunt or her arse. She explained to me that the feeling of my flesh in contact with her flesh was what really got her off. Fingers were pretty OK too and she didn't mind being eaten. But she could take a thrusting cock in her cunt for seemingly hours on end. Cumming over and over. There never seemed a good reason to deny her!
She did once give me a wonderful blowjob. She had me lie down and positioned herself over me. She took and her time and showed considerable skill. It was meant to be something very special, her way of thanking me for my kindness, her way of letting me know she wanted more of the trust and safety and incredible sexual pleasure we'd found together. She even swallowed my load all down in one go. It was fantastic. But I did sometimes feel like I'd have enjoyed more of that.
Dm was always very attentive to my cock. Several times she willingly sucked me to climax. Again, she was very good at it. It was like a gift from her to me and it was very enjoyable for that reason alone. Still, it seemed more like a kind of mechanical thing, going through the motions. She was very good at it (and I hope if she ever read this she'd not be hurt) but sometimes it felt like it was a duty. Not always - I recall one especially passionate and thrilling head job from Dm.
KA sometimes could be in the mood for playing with my cock. OK - so she loved to fuck and she could have many multiple orgasms - so, again, I am not complaining. But mostly what she wanted was my cock in her cunt. Not the worst thing in the world. And sometimes she'd decide it was my turn to get some oral pleasure. What she really loved on those occasions was mouthing and stroking my cock until I erupted all over her hand and my own stomach.
Some women do enjoy watching a man spurt, even if they watch him do all the work as well *grin*
But in truth KA never really sucked and played with my cock with the kind of passion other women can have.
Dl really loves a good hard cock. She always seemed to enjoy mine. But again mostly she wanted to fuck it and not play with it. She always got off hugely on being eaten - multiple orgasms would ensue. And Dl certainly did not mind playing with me or stroking me. IN fact she also rather enjoyed an occasional tit fuck where I'd shoot my load over her chest, neck and even her chin. But whenever we were having sex, and I was going down on her juicy cunt, she'd always get to the point where she wanted to cum even harder. At that point she would always cry out 'give me the cock, give me the cock' and I'd have to mount her (not a challenge I have to say as she was a very sexy lithe little thing) and shove my cock in as deep as it would go - fucking her endlessly while she came and writhed until she needed no more.
Ss was interested and curious about my cock from the start. But sometimes she can go for a long time without really paying it a lot of attention (as in weeks) - except, of course, for wanting to be fucked by it or wanting to ride on it! Sometimes its like she's making me earn a blow job, or as if I am asking for something that is so special it should be rationed. But once in a while she just wants to spend ages pleasuring and stroking and sucking my cock.
She tells me she loves the feeling of control. I get so close to exploding and Ss loves the idea that she can get me to that state. Actually Ss has wonderful hands a wonderful mouth. A couple of times we've been 69ing when she had let me go all the way and fill her mouth with my cum. I know she's loved it as well as me and she likes to swallow me down.
EM wasn't like that at all. The first time we were together she could not get me undressed quickly enough. In a flash her hands were on my cock. For a minute it seemed the only thing he was interested in. Her hands wrapped around my swollen shaft so longlingly. Her eyes lit up so bright. She stroked and tugged on it for several minutes and I am sure she'd have stayed there if I'd not wanted to get enjoy her body myself. EM loved everything about sex and that definitely included cocks.
SH is one who really loves and cocks and can't get enough - in her hands, in her mouth, in her cunt. SH is like a kid in a candy store when it comes to cocks. She sure loves playing and sucking on them. She can do it for absolutely ages - pleasuring, exploring. Sometimes she is slow and soft, other times she gets all aggressive and attacks. She seems to revel in everything about cocks - shape, size, hardness, feel, veins, the ridge underneath his knob... the lot! And she loves watching them cum, spurting semen all over her big tits so she can rub it into her skin.
Especially when she is on her knees. SH loves being on her knees in front of a hard cock!
She also loves to 69 and definitely cums so much quicker and harder when she has a cock shoved down her throat. Its the best of both worlds. For sure that is the way I see it!
SH really likes to make a cock all wet and slick. It can be her saliva or it can be her cunt juices. She loves making them wet and she loves having a wet cock rubbed all over her face. I sometimes wonder if she cannot decide whether she wants to use her hand or her mouth, but she enjoys switching back and forth so my cock stays listening and soaking wet for her.
JW is the same - a true lover of cocks and someone who delights in keeping a cock dripping wet with her saliva. JW is more a mouth operator when it comes to cock play. She loves a cock in her cunt. Of course she also loves to have one in her hands. Her eyes light up as well whenever she gets her hands on my cock. But she always makes sure to spread lots of her drool all over the shaft. And she'll stay on task for as long as required, as long as I want or can stand. It never seems to get boring for her. Sucking on a cock is what she desires and when she is in her zone its almost like what she lives for.
MI is a lot of fun when she has a cock on hand. She wants that cock somewhere, anywhere - hand, mouth cunt, arse. She gets into a kind of trance-like state and seems to forget everything else that is gong on around her. MI is another woman who adores the sight, feel and taste of a hard cock. She can't get enough. And she loves to make them wet as well. However, in her case what she likes is to scoop up some of her copious cunt juices and smear that all over the shaft. She really enjoys the taste of her cunt juices on a rack hard cock - almost as much as she does from stroking the cock and sinking to her knees to take it into her mouth.
As I always say, I have been lucky to experience so much and to experience so many different women with their different likes and desires.
Wednesday 25 April 2012
The things women do
Sometimes (and in some cases sometimes is often!) a woman feels sexy enough and confident enough to let go. She can step outside her normal 'control' or her inhibitions. A lot of males probably wish it would happen more often - like every time they have sex.
Maybe the reason that women don't always allow it to happen is the reason why its so special when it does. If you follow me. Those times when a women really gives more of herself, lets you have a little glimpse inside into what really makes her tick - and gets her off!
KT was one of those women. She'd proposed a threesome with one of her other regular lovers. I was from out of town so she more or less arranged the whole thing. She loved it - totally loved it - being the centre of attention for two horny males who were blown away by how sexy and playful she was. On that night, I was eating her cunt while she was sucking on the other cock. We were getting all the right noises and I knew KT was very much into anal. But the other guy had indicated he wanted first dibs on her bottom that night. So there we were, enjoying ourselves, when what happens but KT reaches down to where I was and slowly shoved a finger right into her own anus! It was amazing. I suppose I wondered why she didn't just ask me to do the same to her, but I guess her mouth was full at the time.
Dm could also be quite amazing but in a more low key sort of way. Still great though. The first time we ever fucked she was riding me and milked me for a load of cum. And she rather seemed to enjoy her own climax. Then she climbed off and proceeded to lick and suck my cock clean. I'd never experienced that before in real life. I told her so. Dm had confessed she felt a little shy about going to bed with me as she felt she was much less experienced than me. But she happily cleaned my cock without a thought. She had guessed most women just did that. I happily explained that most do not and that she was so sexy for doing that.
GS was another woman capable of amazing things. Like the time she decided she wanted to pose for me to take a series of (mostly) nude and sexy pics of her. And usually its me asking the woman who then sternly refuses! And GS was hot, slender and big breasted. But someone generally down on confidence about herself. No idea why she wanted to pose nude - who was I to question it! She posed over and over, semi-clothed, fully nude. I arranged some shots and she volunteered some poses. Some were more 'tasteful' and some were rather pornographic. We spent a couple of hours doing it and she was great, really keen to show off her body and her intimate places. Afterwards I was desperate to fuck her but GS refused. Somehow I was OK with that because it felt like she had dug up some real inner strength to have all those pics taken and with the same strength she didn't feel as if she had to give in to a man's demand for sex.
KA really enjoyed sex in the wide open spaces. Whenever there was a chance at the beach, in a forest, on bushwalks, in the pool she would get hot and horny and start cuddling. Pretty soon I'd get the message about what she was after! She had a pretty hot body too - not all skinny but full and athletic. The thing was she never wanted anyone to see her having sex outdoors or even indoors. But once she was in the wide open spaces she would want to get back to nature herself. The beach could be a challenge for reasons of sand getting in the wrong places. Doggy style was the obvious choice, especially behind some dunes or bent over holding onto a bush. Grassy areas were fair game. Large boulders down by a stream also usually got the juices flowing. I imagine a lot of people have that fantasy about outdoors sex. For KA it wasn't a fantasy. It was something she experienced as often as she could.
So it might not happen as often as males (and me especially) would like. But when it does its always incredibly sexy and very memorable.
Thanks to you all. You know who you are.
Maybe the reason that women don't always allow it to happen is the reason why its so special when it does. If you follow me. Those times when a women really gives more of herself, lets you have a little glimpse inside into what really makes her tick - and gets her off!
KT was one of those women. She'd proposed a threesome with one of her other regular lovers. I was from out of town so she more or less arranged the whole thing. She loved it - totally loved it - being the centre of attention for two horny males who were blown away by how sexy and playful she was. On that night, I was eating her cunt while she was sucking on the other cock. We were getting all the right noises and I knew KT was very much into anal. But the other guy had indicated he wanted first dibs on her bottom that night. So there we were, enjoying ourselves, when what happens but KT reaches down to where I was and slowly shoved a finger right into her own anus! It was amazing. I suppose I wondered why she didn't just ask me to do the same to her, but I guess her mouth was full at the time.
Dm could also be quite amazing but in a more low key sort of way. Still great though. The first time we ever fucked she was riding me and milked me for a load of cum. And she rather seemed to enjoy her own climax. Then she climbed off and proceeded to lick and suck my cock clean. I'd never experienced that before in real life. I told her so. Dm had confessed she felt a little shy about going to bed with me as she felt she was much less experienced than me. But she happily cleaned my cock without a thought. She had guessed most women just did that. I happily explained that most do not and that she was so sexy for doing that.
GS was another woman capable of amazing things. Like the time she decided she wanted to pose for me to take a series of (mostly) nude and sexy pics of her. And usually its me asking the woman who then sternly refuses! And GS was hot, slender and big breasted. But someone generally down on confidence about herself. No idea why she wanted to pose nude - who was I to question it! She posed over and over, semi-clothed, fully nude. I arranged some shots and she volunteered some poses. Some were more 'tasteful' and some were rather pornographic. We spent a couple of hours doing it and she was great, really keen to show off her body and her intimate places. Afterwards I was desperate to fuck her but GS refused. Somehow I was OK with that because it felt like she had dug up some real inner strength to have all those pics taken and with the same strength she didn't feel as if she had to give in to a man's demand for sex.
KA really enjoyed sex in the wide open spaces. Whenever there was a chance at the beach, in a forest, on bushwalks, in the pool she would get hot and horny and start cuddling. Pretty soon I'd get the message about what she was after! She had a pretty hot body too - not all skinny but full and athletic. The thing was she never wanted anyone to see her having sex outdoors or even indoors. But once she was in the wide open spaces she would want to get back to nature herself. The beach could be a challenge for reasons of sand getting in the wrong places. Doggy style was the obvious choice, especially behind some dunes or bent over holding onto a bush. Grassy areas were fair game. Large boulders down by a stream also usually got the juices flowing. I imagine a lot of people have that fantasy about outdoors sex. For KA it wasn't a fantasy. It was something she experienced as often as she could.
So it might not happen as often as males (and me especially) would like. But when it does its always incredibly sexy and very memorable.
Thanks to you all. You know who you are.
Saturday 31 March 2012
Women and anal sex
Now I admit I am a kinky person who likes to explore a whole range of 'taboo' acts and so forth, a pervert I guess in the old school description. So early on I had a strong desire to experience and explore anal sex (from the position of the giver).
FK was the first women to ever allow me to explore and I think a lot of that had to do with the fact she was open-minded and very much loves sex! And also I think the fact I was a little older and she was prepared to let me guide her. (That's also a very sexy experience!) FK quickly discovered she loved anal, especially if she rubbed her clit at the same time and reached one of her explosive orgasms.
So I was hooked after that. But what about women apart from FK?
I recall some years ago I read a report that 15% (I think - it was a long time ago) of women enjoyed anal sex. Well, my observations are based on only a small sample. But my experience is the number who are prepared to try is closer to 50%.
Those who enjoy it and will be happy to try it again is more like 40% I have found. And women seem to have many different reasons for enjoying anal.
Good for people like me!
In my time I have had the experience of introducing anal sex to 7 women who were 'anal virgins'. Of those, one definitely didn't like it and only one said after a few attempts that she didn't really enjoy it. And I can understand cos I don't enjoy having my bottom poked either! Still, for someone like me that's a good strike rate. But there have been others who point blank refused *lol*
Dm actually asked me before I brought it up. She said she wanted to experience 'what the other half have'. She loved the feeling of being on hands and knees and being slowly fucked in her arse. While not really a submissive, Dm enjoyed the thrill of being 'used' in that way and the idea it was a 'dirty' 'slutty' taboo. She loved feeling me cum inside her bum.
AW didn't blink when I suggested it to her. Again, I think she felt I was more sexually experienced and could show her some wonderful pleasures. We did it that very first time I asked. She never orgasmed from anal but we could go for ages, slowly reaming her in the missionary position. She loved being filled and the sensations actually seemed to be almost gentle and relaxing for her.
Some women hate the sensation of being filled up - as if they need to go to the toilet. A couple have told me that sensation is what they enjoy most about anal sex.
CD almost prefers to have a cock in her bottom than her cunt. And there is no doubt she can cum just as easily from anal.
I suppose like a lot of things, sometimes anal takes a bit of practice before both people work out how best to enjoy it.
Ss took a long time. She really wanted to learn to enjoy anal but just wasn't able physically to cope with it. But in the end it took a few years of 'off and on' gentle stroking and licking. Now she loves having her arse fingered while her cunt is being licked. And she's now able to enjoy having a cock in her arse and being slowly fucked while her clit is being rubbed. She loves the orgasms but still finds them 'different'. Some women appreciate that aspect of anal but Ss might still need a little more time to get to that stage.
And of course there's a range of toys and other playthings that can make anal play and exploration that much more fun.
Anal is also a really great element of D/s play too. The idea of the submissive totally surrendering her body, the potential for feeling vulnerable and used, maybe a bit of humiliation. That's where butt plugs come into their own, being worn out in public for example. GS was one woman I knew who very much enjoyed being tasked to go about her daily chores or even to the office with a nice nice soft intruder wedged inside her bum.
Someone might like to write about the experience of being a male on the receiving end. It won't be me - sorry. When it comes to anal, even though I think more women enjoy it than might be expected, I have tried it once or twice and I know that, in my case, being the recipient is not thrill at all.
FK was the first women to ever allow me to explore and I think a lot of that had to do with the fact she was open-minded and very much loves sex! And also I think the fact I was a little older and she was prepared to let me guide her. (That's also a very sexy experience!) FK quickly discovered she loved anal, especially if she rubbed her clit at the same time and reached one of her explosive orgasms.
So I was hooked after that. But what about women apart from FK?
I recall some years ago I read a report that 15% (I think - it was a long time ago) of women enjoyed anal sex. Well, my observations are based on only a small sample. But my experience is the number who are prepared to try is closer to 50%.
Those who enjoy it and will be happy to try it again is more like 40% I have found. And women seem to have many different reasons for enjoying anal.
Good for people like me!
In my time I have had the experience of introducing anal sex to 7 women who were 'anal virgins'. Of those, one definitely didn't like it and only one said after a few attempts that she didn't really enjoy it. And I can understand cos I don't enjoy having my bottom poked either! Still, for someone like me that's a good strike rate. But there have been others who point blank refused *lol*
Dm actually asked me before I brought it up. She said she wanted to experience 'what the other half have'. She loved the feeling of being on hands and knees and being slowly fucked in her arse. While not really a submissive, Dm enjoyed the thrill of being 'used' in that way and the idea it was a 'dirty' 'slutty' taboo. She loved feeling me cum inside her bum.
AW didn't blink when I suggested it to her. Again, I think she felt I was more sexually experienced and could show her some wonderful pleasures. We did it that very first time I asked. She never orgasmed from anal but we could go for ages, slowly reaming her in the missionary position. She loved being filled and the sensations actually seemed to be almost gentle and relaxing for her.
Some women hate the sensation of being filled up - as if they need to go to the toilet. A couple have told me that sensation is what they enjoy most about anal sex.
CD almost prefers to have a cock in her bottom than her cunt. And there is no doubt she can cum just as easily from anal.
I suppose like a lot of things, sometimes anal takes a bit of practice before both people work out how best to enjoy it.
Ss took a long time. She really wanted to learn to enjoy anal but just wasn't able physically to cope with it. But in the end it took a few years of 'off and on' gentle stroking and licking. Now she loves having her arse fingered while her cunt is being licked. And she's now able to enjoy having a cock in her arse and being slowly fucked while her clit is being rubbed. She loves the orgasms but still finds them 'different'. Some women appreciate that aspect of anal but Ss might still need a little more time to get to that stage.
And of course there's a range of toys and other playthings that can make anal play and exploration that much more fun.
Anal is also a really great element of D/s play too. The idea of the submissive totally surrendering her body, the potential for feeling vulnerable and used, maybe a bit of humiliation. That's where butt plugs come into their own, being worn out in public for example. GS was one woman I knew who very much enjoyed being tasked to go about her daily chores or even to the office with a nice nice soft intruder wedged inside her bum.
Someone might like to write about the experience of being a male on the receiving end. It won't be me - sorry. When it comes to anal, even though I think more women enjoy it than might be expected, I have tried it once or twice and I know that, in my case, being the recipient is not thrill at all.
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