So I realised I might have spoken to early on my last (now rather long ago) blog. I commented on how much Ss likes a cock. She gave me another experience more recently which changed my mind a little. It also gave me a good opportunity to relate a whole actual event rather than just the highlights.
I arrived at Ss place and she greeted me at the door naked under her skimpy dress (this is pretty usual). Of course I started groping her in the door way and soon we moved to the loungeroom where she was responding just right with lots of heavy breathing and some moaning and just grabbing at me.
Then Ss decided to drag me off to her bedroom - no complaints! We both stripped off and she climbed onto the bed but not in the usual position. What I enjoy about Ss is that she loves having her cunt eaten and she is always ready to invite me in by gently parting her thighs for rme. Other times, when she signals enough interest in my cock, she lets me put my hands on her shoulders and press her down onto her knees in front of my erect cock.
This time was different. This time she wanted me on my back and once I was there Ss got into position and started licking my shaft and my balls. Soon I was totally rock hard and then she started playing with the head, her hands stroking my balls and my shaft.
Ss likes the idea she can tease me and make me wait. I like the fact that she feels in command when she takes me in her mouth so I never complain.
Soon she was taking more and more of me into her mouth. A few times she alternated with giving firm little kisses along the underside of my shaft. She also made sure to lick and suck on my balls.
We were both enjoying it. Ss was happily listening to my moans of pleasure and bobbing up and down on my cock, her hand also stroking softly up and down. She was taking a lot of time and a lot of effort to really make the most of my cock in her mouth - not quite worshipping but very much enjoying her power over me and the response she was getting from my cock with her warm, soft mouth.
Ss was there for a long time, feeling my hardness in her mouth and my throbbing. Once in a while she'd take me out for a proper handjob as if she wanted to inspect the results of her efforts. She likes to inspect me sometimes, the veins and the way a cock glistens when its covered in her lusty drool.
She went back to mouthing me and for a while I could feel my balls starting to boil. I wondered whether I should interrupt her or just keep going till I exploded and she would happily swallow all my cock cream.
But Ss in fact had another idea. She let me go now and moved into position. I could see what was coming and I was more than happy.
In a moment Ss was on top of me and impaling herself on my hard cock. There she proceeded to ride away to her hearts content, finding the right position where she can get me all inside her and feel me rubbing against her G-spot.
I was in rapture as her fevered mind took over and watching her big tits bounce and sway. I even helped her a bit by working my hands on her tits, firmly squeezing them and pinching her nipples just the way she likes.
I think Ss had 4 or more orgasms before she finally had to relent and collapsed on top of me, spent for now. Happily I had managed to hold off on my own climax and so I knew as soon as Ss was ready we be at it again.
Sunday, 19 August 2012
Saturday, 30 June 2012
Women and cocks
Are you a woman who loves cocks? Not just finds them enjoyable. And not just the one you might be in a LTR with. I mean LOVE cocks?
Some women seem not to. Sometimes I have been with a woman who knew my cock would help her get the pleasure she wanted. But it seemed like just a tool for the job at hand. No real interest in touching or stroking or pleasuring it - let alone sucking it.
Should I be complaining?
Sometimes a woman loves a cock but really she just wants it inside her... in her cunt, fucking her and filling her.
AW was like that. She loved nothing more than being fucked in either her cunt or her arse. She explained to me that the feeling of my flesh in contact with her flesh was what really got her off. Fingers were pretty OK too and she didn't mind being eaten. But she could take a thrusting cock in her cunt for seemingly hours on end. Cumming over and over. There never seemed a good reason to deny her!
She did once give me a wonderful blowjob. She had me lie down and positioned herself over me. She took and her time and showed considerable skill. It was meant to be something very special, her way of thanking me for my kindness, her way of letting me know she wanted more of the trust and safety and incredible sexual pleasure we'd found together. She even swallowed my load all down in one go. It was fantastic. But I did sometimes feel like I'd have enjoyed more of that.
Dm was always very attentive to my cock. Several times she willingly sucked me to climax. Again, she was very good at it. It was like a gift from her to me and it was very enjoyable for that reason alone. Still, it seemed more like a kind of mechanical thing, going through the motions. She was very good at it (and I hope if she ever read this she'd not be hurt) but sometimes it felt like it was a duty. Not always - I recall one especially passionate and thrilling head job from Dm.
KA sometimes could be in the mood for playing with my cock. OK - so she loved to fuck and she could have many multiple orgasms - so, again, I am not complaining. But mostly what she wanted was my cock in her cunt. Not the worst thing in the world. And sometimes she'd decide it was my turn to get some oral pleasure. What she really loved on those occasions was mouthing and stroking my cock until I erupted all over her hand and my own stomach.
Some women do enjoy watching a man spurt, even if they watch him do all the work as well *grin*
But in truth KA never really sucked and played with my cock with the kind of passion other women can have.
Dl really loves a good hard cock. She always seemed to enjoy mine. But again mostly she wanted to fuck it and not play with it. She always got off hugely on being eaten - multiple orgasms would ensue. And Dl certainly did not mind playing with me or stroking me. IN fact she also rather enjoyed an occasional tit fuck where I'd shoot my load over her chest, neck and even her chin. But whenever we were having sex, and I was going down on her juicy cunt, she'd always get to the point where she wanted to cum even harder. At that point she would always cry out 'give me the cock, give me the cock' and I'd have to mount her (not a challenge I have to say as she was a very sexy lithe little thing) and shove my cock in as deep as it would go - fucking her endlessly while she came and writhed until she needed no more.
Ss was interested and curious about my cock from the start. But sometimes she can go for a long time without really paying it a lot of attention (as in weeks) - except, of course, for wanting to be fucked by it or wanting to ride on it! Sometimes its like she's making me earn a blow job, or as if I am asking for something that is so special it should be rationed. But once in a while she just wants to spend ages pleasuring and stroking and sucking my cock.
She tells me she loves the feeling of control. I get so close to exploding and Ss loves the idea that she can get me to that state. Actually Ss has wonderful hands a wonderful mouth. A couple of times we've been 69ing when she had let me go all the way and fill her mouth with my cum. I know she's loved it as well as me and she likes to swallow me down.
EM wasn't like that at all. The first time we were together she could not get me undressed quickly enough. In a flash her hands were on my cock. For a minute it seemed the only thing he was interested in. Her hands wrapped around my swollen shaft so longlingly. Her eyes lit up so bright. She stroked and tugged on it for several minutes and I am sure she'd have stayed there if I'd not wanted to get enjoy her body myself. EM loved everything about sex and that definitely included cocks.
SH is one who really loves and cocks and can't get enough - in her hands, in her mouth, in her cunt. SH is like a kid in a candy store when it comes to cocks. She sure loves playing and sucking on them. She can do it for absolutely ages - pleasuring, exploring. Sometimes she is slow and soft, other times she gets all aggressive and attacks. She seems to revel in everything about cocks - shape, size, hardness, feel, veins, the ridge underneath his knob... the lot! And she loves watching them cum, spurting semen all over her big tits so she can rub it into her skin.
Especially when she is on her knees. SH loves being on her knees in front of a hard cock!
She also loves to 69 and definitely cums so much quicker and harder when she has a cock shoved down her throat. Its the best of both worlds. For sure that is the way I see it!
SH really likes to make a cock all wet and slick. It can be her saliva or it can be her cunt juices. She loves making them wet and she loves having a wet cock rubbed all over her face. I sometimes wonder if she cannot decide whether she wants to use her hand or her mouth, but she enjoys switching back and forth so my cock stays listening and soaking wet for her.
JW is the same - a true lover of cocks and someone who delights in keeping a cock dripping wet with her saliva. JW is more a mouth operator when it comes to cock play. She loves a cock in her cunt. Of course she also loves to have one in her hands. Her eyes light up as well whenever she gets her hands on my cock. But she always makes sure to spread lots of her drool all over the shaft. And she'll stay on task for as long as required, as long as I want or can stand. It never seems to get boring for her. Sucking on a cock is what she desires and when she is in her zone its almost like what she lives for.
MI is a lot of fun when she has a cock on hand. She wants that cock somewhere, anywhere - hand, mouth cunt, arse. She gets into a kind of trance-like state and seems to forget everything else that is gong on around her. MI is another woman who adores the sight, feel and taste of a hard cock. She can't get enough. And she loves to make them wet as well. However, in her case what she likes is to scoop up some of her copious cunt juices and smear that all over the shaft. She really enjoys the taste of her cunt juices on a rack hard cock - almost as much as she does from stroking the cock and sinking to her knees to take it into her mouth.
As I always say, I have been lucky to experience so much and to experience so many different women with their different likes and desires.
Some women seem not to. Sometimes I have been with a woman who knew my cock would help her get the pleasure she wanted. But it seemed like just a tool for the job at hand. No real interest in touching or stroking or pleasuring it - let alone sucking it.
Should I be complaining?
Sometimes a woman loves a cock but really she just wants it inside her... in her cunt, fucking her and filling her.
AW was like that. She loved nothing more than being fucked in either her cunt or her arse. She explained to me that the feeling of my flesh in contact with her flesh was what really got her off. Fingers were pretty OK too and she didn't mind being eaten. But she could take a thrusting cock in her cunt for seemingly hours on end. Cumming over and over. There never seemed a good reason to deny her!
She did once give me a wonderful blowjob. She had me lie down and positioned herself over me. She took and her time and showed considerable skill. It was meant to be something very special, her way of thanking me for my kindness, her way of letting me know she wanted more of the trust and safety and incredible sexual pleasure we'd found together. She even swallowed my load all down in one go. It was fantastic. But I did sometimes feel like I'd have enjoyed more of that.
Dm was always very attentive to my cock. Several times she willingly sucked me to climax. Again, she was very good at it. It was like a gift from her to me and it was very enjoyable for that reason alone. Still, it seemed more like a kind of mechanical thing, going through the motions. She was very good at it (and I hope if she ever read this she'd not be hurt) but sometimes it felt like it was a duty. Not always - I recall one especially passionate and thrilling head job from Dm.
KA sometimes could be in the mood for playing with my cock. OK - so she loved to fuck and she could have many multiple orgasms - so, again, I am not complaining. But mostly what she wanted was my cock in her cunt. Not the worst thing in the world. And sometimes she'd decide it was my turn to get some oral pleasure. What she really loved on those occasions was mouthing and stroking my cock until I erupted all over her hand and my own stomach.
Some women do enjoy watching a man spurt, even if they watch him do all the work as well *grin*
But in truth KA never really sucked and played with my cock with the kind of passion other women can have.
Dl really loves a good hard cock. She always seemed to enjoy mine. But again mostly she wanted to fuck it and not play with it. She always got off hugely on being eaten - multiple orgasms would ensue. And Dl certainly did not mind playing with me or stroking me. IN fact she also rather enjoyed an occasional tit fuck where I'd shoot my load over her chest, neck and even her chin. But whenever we were having sex, and I was going down on her juicy cunt, she'd always get to the point where she wanted to cum even harder. At that point she would always cry out 'give me the cock, give me the cock' and I'd have to mount her (not a challenge I have to say as she was a very sexy lithe little thing) and shove my cock in as deep as it would go - fucking her endlessly while she came and writhed until she needed no more.
Ss was interested and curious about my cock from the start. But sometimes she can go for a long time without really paying it a lot of attention (as in weeks) - except, of course, for wanting to be fucked by it or wanting to ride on it! Sometimes its like she's making me earn a blow job, or as if I am asking for something that is so special it should be rationed. But once in a while she just wants to spend ages pleasuring and stroking and sucking my cock.
She tells me she loves the feeling of control. I get so close to exploding and Ss loves the idea that she can get me to that state. Actually Ss has wonderful hands a wonderful mouth. A couple of times we've been 69ing when she had let me go all the way and fill her mouth with my cum. I know she's loved it as well as me and she likes to swallow me down.
EM wasn't like that at all. The first time we were together she could not get me undressed quickly enough. In a flash her hands were on my cock. For a minute it seemed the only thing he was interested in. Her hands wrapped around my swollen shaft so longlingly. Her eyes lit up so bright. She stroked and tugged on it for several minutes and I am sure she'd have stayed there if I'd not wanted to get enjoy her body myself. EM loved everything about sex and that definitely included cocks.
SH is one who really loves and cocks and can't get enough - in her hands, in her mouth, in her cunt. SH is like a kid in a candy store when it comes to cocks. She sure loves playing and sucking on them. She can do it for absolutely ages - pleasuring, exploring. Sometimes she is slow and soft, other times she gets all aggressive and attacks. She seems to revel in everything about cocks - shape, size, hardness, feel, veins, the ridge underneath his knob... the lot! And she loves watching them cum, spurting semen all over her big tits so she can rub it into her skin.
Especially when she is on her knees. SH loves being on her knees in front of a hard cock!
She also loves to 69 and definitely cums so much quicker and harder when she has a cock shoved down her throat. Its the best of both worlds. For sure that is the way I see it!
SH really likes to make a cock all wet and slick. It can be her saliva or it can be her cunt juices. She loves making them wet and she loves having a wet cock rubbed all over her face. I sometimes wonder if she cannot decide whether she wants to use her hand or her mouth, but she enjoys switching back and forth so my cock stays listening and soaking wet for her.
JW is the same - a true lover of cocks and someone who delights in keeping a cock dripping wet with her saliva. JW is more a mouth operator when it comes to cock play. She loves a cock in her cunt. Of course she also loves to have one in her hands. Her eyes light up as well whenever she gets her hands on my cock. But she always makes sure to spread lots of her drool all over the shaft. And she'll stay on task for as long as required, as long as I want or can stand. It never seems to get boring for her. Sucking on a cock is what she desires and when she is in her zone its almost like what she lives for.
MI is a lot of fun when she has a cock on hand. She wants that cock somewhere, anywhere - hand, mouth cunt, arse. She gets into a kind of trance-like state and seems to forget everything else that is gong on around her. MI is another woman who adores the sight, feel and taste of a hard cock. She can't get enough. And she loves to make them wet as well. However, in her case what she likes is to scoop up some of her copious cunt juices and smear that all over the shaft. She really enjoys the taste of her cunt juices on a rack hard cock - almost as much as she does from stroking the cock and sinking to her knees to take it into her mouth.
As I always say, I have been lucky to experience so much and to experience so many different women with their different likes and desires.
Wednesday, 25 April 2012
The things women do
Sometimes (and in some cases sometimes is often!) a woman feels sexy enough and confident enough to let go. She can step outside her normal 'control' or her inhibitions. A lot of males probably wish it would happen more often - like every time they have sex.
Maybe the reason that women don't always allow it to happen is the reason why its so special when it does. If you follow me. Those times when a women really gives more of herself, lets you have a little glimpse inside into what really makes her tick - and gets her off!
KT was one of those women. She'd proposed a threesome with one of her other regular lovers. I was from out of town so she more or less arranged the whole thing. She loved it - totally loved it - being the centre of attention for two horny males who were blown away by how sexy and playful she was. On that night, I was eating her cunt while she was sucking on the other cock. We were getting all the right noises and I knew KT was very much into anal. But the other guy had indicated he wanted first dibs on her bottom that night. So there we were, enjoying ourselves, when what happens but KT reaches down to where I was and slowly shoved a finger right into her own anus! It was amazing. I suppose I wondered why she didn't just ask me to do the same to her, but I guess her mouth was full at the time.
Dm could also be quite amazing but in a more low key sort of way. Still great though. The first time we ever fucked she was riding me and milked me for a load of cum. And she rather seemed to enjoy her own climax. Then she climbed off and proceeded to lick and suck my cock clean. I'd never experienced that before in real life. I told her so. Dm had confessed she felt a little shy about going to bed with me as she felt she was much less experienced than me. But she happily cleaned my cock without a thought. She had guessed most women just did that. I happily explained that most do not and that she was so sexy for doing that.
GS was another woman capable of amazing things. Like the time she decided she wanted to pose for me to take a series of (mostly) nude and sexy pics of her. And usually its me asking the woman who then sternly refuses! And GS was hot, slender and big breasted. But someone generally down on confidence about herself. No idea why she wanted to pose nude - who was I to question it! She posed over and over, semi-clothed, fully nude. I arranged some shots and she volunteered some poses. Some were more 'tasteful' and some were rather pornographic. We spent a couple of hours doing it and she was great, really keen to show off her body and her intimate places. Afterwards I was desperate to fuck her but GS refused. Somehow I was OK with that because it felt like she had dug up some real inner strength to have all those pics taken and with the same strength she didn't feel as if she had to give in to a man's demand for sex.
KA really enjoyed sex in the wide open spaces. Whenever there was a chance at the beach, in a forest, on bushwalks, in the pool she would get hot and horny and start cuddling. Pretty soon I'd get the message about what she was after! She had a pretty hot body too - not all skinny but full and athletic. The thing was she never wanted anyone to see her having sex outdoors or even indoors. But once she was in the wide open spaces she would want to get back to nature herself. The beach could be a challenge for reasons of sand getting in the wrong places. Doggy style was the obvious choice, especially behind some dunes or bent over holding onto a bush. Grassy areas were fair game. Large boulders down by a stream also usually got the juices flowing. I imagine a lot of people have that fantasy about outdoors sex. For KA it wasn't a fantasy. It was something she experienced as often as she could.
So it might not happen as often as males (and me especially) would like. But when it does its always incredibly sexy and very memorable.
Thanks to you all. You know who you are.
Maybe the reason that women don't always allow it to happen is the reason why its so special when it does. If you follow me. Those times when a women really gives more of herself, lets you have a little glimpse inside into what really makes her tick - and gets her off!
KT was one of those women. She'd proposed a threesome with one of her other regular lovers. I was from out of town so she more or less arranged the whole thing. She loved it - totally loved it - being the centre of attention for two horny males who were blown away by how sexy and playful she was. On that night, I was eating her cunt while she was sucking on the other cock. We were getting all the right noises and I knew KT was very much into anal. But the other guy had indicated he wanted first dibs on her bottom that night. So there we were, enjoying ourselves, when what happens but KT reaches down to where I was and slowly shoved a finger right into her own anus! It was amazing. I suppose I wondered why she didn't just ask me to do the same to her, but I guess her mouth was full at the time.
Dm could also be quite amazing but in a more low key sort of way. Still great though. The first time we ever fucked she was riding me and milked me for a load of cum. And she rather seemed to enjoy her own climax. Then she climbed off and proceeded to lick and suck my cock clean. I'd never experienced that before in real life. I told her so. Dm had confessed she felt a little shy about going to bed with me as she felt she was much less experienced than me. But she happily cleaned my cock without a thought. She had guessed most women just did that. I happily explained that most do not and that she was so sexy for doing that.
GS was another woman capable of amazing things. Like the time she decided she wanted to pose for me to take a series of (mostly) nude and sexy pics of her. And usually its me asking the woman who then sternly refuses! And GS was hot, slender and big breasted. But someone generally down on confidence about herself. No idea why she wanted to pose nude - who was I to question it! She posed over and over, semi-clothed, fully nude. I arranged some shots and she volunteered some poses. Some were more 'tasteful' and some were rather pornographic. We spent a couple of hours doing it and she was great, really keen to show off her body and her intimate places. Afterwards I was desperate to fuck her but GS refused. Somehow I was OK with that because it felt like she had dug up some real inner strength to have all those pics taken and with the same strength she didn't feel as if she had to give in to a man's demand for sex.
KA really enjoyed sex in the wide open spaces. Whenever there was a chance at the beach, in a forest, on bushwalks, in the pool she would get hot and horny and start cuddling. Pretty soon I'd get the message about what she was after! She had a pretty hot body too - not all skinny but full and athletic. The thing was she never wanted anyone to see her having sex outdoors or even indoors. But once she was in the wide open spaces she would want to get back to nature herself. The beach could be a challenge for reasons of sand getting in the wrong places. Doggy style was the obvious choice, especially behind some dunes or bent over holding onto a bush. Grassy areas were fair game. Large boulders down by a stream also usually got the juices flowing. I imagine a lot of people have that fantasy about outdoors sex. For KA it wasn't a fantasy. It was something she experienced as often as she could.
So it might not happen as often as males (and me especially) would like. But when it does its always incredibly sexy and very memorable.
Thanks to you all. You know who you are.
Saturday, 31 March 2012
Women and anal sex
Now I admit I am a kinky person who likes to explore a whole range of 'taboo' acts and so forth, a pervert I guess in the old school description. So early on I had a strong desire to experience and explore anal sex (from the position of the giver).
FK was the first women to ever allow me to explore and I think a lot of that had to do with the fact she was open-minded and very much loves sex! And also I think the fact I was a little older and she was prepared to let me guide her. (That's also a very sexy experience!) FK quickly discovered she loved anal, especially if she rubbed her clit at the same time and reached one of her explosive orgasms.
So I was hooked after that. But what about women apart from FK?
I recall some years ago I read a report that 15% (I think - it was a long time ago) of women enjoyed anal sex. Well, my observations are based on only a small sample. But my experience is the number who are prepared to try is closer to 50%.
Those who enjoy it and will be happy to try it again is more like 40% I have found. And women seem to have many different reasons for enjoying anal.
Good for people like me!
In my time I have had the experience of introducing anal sex to 7 women who were 'anal virgins'. Of those, one definitely didn't like it and only one said after a few attempts that she didn't really enjoy it. And I can understand cos I don't enjoy having my bottom poked either! Still, for someone like me that's a good strike rate. But there have been others who point blank refused *lol*
Dm actually asked me before I brought it up. She said she wanted to experience 'what the other half have'. She loved the feeling of being on hands and knees and being slowly fucked in her arse. While not really a submissive, Dm enjoyed the thrill of being 'used' in that way and the idea it was a 'dirty' 'slutty' taboo. She loved feeling me cum inside her bum.
AW didn't blink when I suggested it to her. Again, I think she felt I was more sexually experienced and could show her some wonderful pleasures. We did it that very first time I asked. She never orgasmed from anal but we could go for ages, slowly reaming her in the missionary position. She loved being filled and the sensations actually seemed to be almost gentle and relaxing for her.
Some women hate the sensation of being filled up - as if they need to go to the toilet. A couple have told me that sensation is what they enjoy most about anal sex.
CD almost prefers to have a cock in her bottom than her cunt. And there is no doubt she can cum just as easily from anal.
I suppose like a lot of things, sometimes anal takes a bit of practice before both people work out how best to enjoy it.
Ss took a long time. She really wanted to learn to enjoy anal but just wasn't able physically to cope with it. But in the end it took a few years of 'off and on' gentle stroking and licking. Now she loves having her arse fingered while her cunt is being licked. And she's now able to enjoy having a cock in her arse and being slowly fucked while her clit is being rubbed. She loves the orgasms but still finds them 'different'. Some women appreciate that aspect of anal but Ss might still need a little more time to get to that stage.
And of course there's a range of toys and other playthings that can make anal play and exploration that much more fun.
Anal is also a really great element of D/s play too. The idea of the submissive totally surrendering her body, the potential for feeling vulnerable and used, maybe a bit of humiliation. That's where butt plugs come into their own, being worn out in public for example. GS was one woman I knew who very much enjoyed being tasked to go about her daily chores or even to the office with a nice nice soft intruder wedged inside her bum.
Someone might like to write about the experience of being a male on the receiving end. It won't be me - sorry. When it comes to anal, even though I think more women enjoy it than might be expected, I have tried it once or twice and I know that, in my case, being the recipient is not thrill at all.
FK was the first women to ever allow me to explore and I think a lot of that had to do with the fact she was open-minded and very much loves sex! And also I think the fact I was a little older and she was prepared to let me guide her. (That's also a very sexy experience!) FK quickly discovered she loved anal, especially if she rubbed her clit at the same time and reached one of her explosive orgasms.
So I was hooked after that. But what about women apart from FK?
I recall some years ago I read a report that 15% (I think - it was a long time ago) of women enjoyed anal sex. Well, my observations are based on only a small sample. But my experience is the number who are prepared to try is closer to 50%.
Those who enjoy it and will be happy to try it again is more like 40% I have found. And women seem to have many different reasons for enjoying anal.
Good for people like me!
In my time I have had the experience of introducing anal sex to 7 women who were 'anal virgins'. Of those, one definitely didn't like it and only one said after a few attempts that she didn't really enjoy it. And I can understand cos I don't enjoy having my bottom poked either! Still, for someone like me that's a good strike rate. But there have been others who point blank refused *lol*
Dm actually asked me before I brought it up. She said she wanted to experience 'what the other half have'. She loved the feeling of being on hands and knees and being slowly fucked in her arse. While not really a submissive, Dm enjoyed the thrill of being 'used' in that way and the idea it was a 'dirty' 'slutty' taboo. She loved feeling me cum inside her bum.
AW didn't blink when I suggested it to her. Again, I think she felt I was more sexually experienced and could show her some wonderful pleasures. We did it that very first time I asked. She never orgasmed from anal but we could go for ages, slowly reaming her in the missionary position. She loved being filled and the sensations actually seemed to be almost gentle and relaxing for her.
Some women hate the sensation of being filled up - as if they need to go to the toilet. A couple have told me that sensation is what they enjoy most about anal sex.
CD almost prefers to have a cock in her bottom than her cunt. And there is no doubt she can cum just as easily from anal.
I suppose like a lot of things, sometimes anal takes a bit of practice before both people work out how best to enjoy it.
Ss took a long time. She really wanted to learn to enjoy anal but just wasn't able physically to cope with it. But in the end it took a few years of 'off and on' gentle stroking and licking. Now she loves having her arse fingered while her cunt is being licked. And she's now able to enjoy having a cock in her arse and being slowly fucked while her clit is being rubbed. She loves the orgasms but still finds them 'different'. Some women appreciate that aspect of anal but Ss might still need a little more time to get to that stage.
And of course there's a range of toys and other playthings that can make anal play and exploration that much more fun.
Anal is also a really great element of D/s play too. The idea of the submissive totally surrendering her body, the potential for feeling vulnerable and used, maybe a bit of humiliation. That's where butt plugs come into their own, being worn out in public for example. GS was one woman I knew who very much enjoyed being tasked to go about her daily chores or even to the office with a nice nice soft intruder wedged inside her bum.
Someone might like to write about the experience of being a male on the receiving end. It won't be me - sorry. When it comes to anal, even though I think more women enjoy it than might be expected, I have tried it once or twice and I know that, in my case, being the recipient is not thrill at all.
Saturday, 17 March 2012
The things women say
Women are wonderful creatures. And they do get a tough time from society and the attitudes that surround them. Its that 'madonna/whore' thing. And I suppose its not just that women learn to keep some feelings bottled up. When it comes to sex it might be that we all prefer a little bit of discretion. Are there times when we want our sex to be up-front and loud? And then other times when we prefer it to be a little quieter? Is it a 'time and a place' idea? Sex is a big part of our lives (for most people) but we often don't like to admit it.
I don't know all the answers to those questions. What I do know is that many women, when they're feeling safe and confident and strong and horny and private, can let their inner 'slut' out - expose those horny, assertive parts that sometimes society doesn't want to acknowledge about women/mothers/daughters/wives.
In times like that, some of the women I have known have uttered some really erotic and 'slutty' things.
'Cum on my face,' said Dx. 'Shoot it in my fucking mouth.' And this was no porn scene. She was right there with me. And the bits of cum that landed on her chin and her cheek, she scooped up with a finger and into her mouth. Yes, she probably was acting a porn scene - but why not? She wanted to and I was astonished and excited to be a part of it.
'Pound me.' That was Ss. Simple, to the point. And did I ever? - pulling her legs up onto my shoulders and folding her in half, the better to aim straight and deep into her cunt. I pounded her till she cried and screamed climax after climax. What did the neighbours think?
'Make my tits bounce.' Hmmmm... SH was a woman (like many I think) who not only can admit to enjoying robust fucking but sometimes like to walk on the 'dark side' a little. Would she be sore the next day? That was what she wanted - to feel truly fucked and to go on feeling it the next day. Later she told me it had worked!
FK knew what she liked but she was happy to let me choose. On more than one occasion her question to me was 'which do you want?'. Y'see, FK had allowed me to introduce her to anal sex. She loved it! And after that, very often when we fucked, FK would let me know she was ready for more, happily offering me the choice of which place I wanted to penetrate.
Dm also wanted something to touch her dark side. Something quite different. 'I'm a dirty evil slut and I need to be punished.' It was her most secret desire, something only once before hinted at when talking (she told me) to a girlfriend. many times I did spank her, too. She would be ordered to drop her trousers and underwear and lie over my lap. I would spank her brutally with my hand... and then she'd be so wet I'd finger her to orgasm. Oh how she enjoyed that reward. We bought her a paddle, too - a nice heavy, leather paddle. After that the beatings became more severe. Dm was always ready for them. On a couple of occasion she went to work the next day with huge, dark bruises all over her bottom. She confessed she loved the experience, a reminder of the previous night and a secret victory over the other 'straights' in her workplace.
Thanks to those wonderful women for such sexy memories.
I don't know all the answers to those questions. What I do know is that many women, when they're feeling safe and confident and strong and horny and private, can let their inner 'slut' out - expose those horny, assertive parts that sometimes society doesn't want to acknowledge about women/mothers/daughters/wives.
In times like that, some of the women I have known have uttered some really erotic and 'slutty' things.
'Cum on my face,' said Dx. 'Shoot it in my fucking mouth.' And this was no porn scene. She was right there with me. And the bits of cum that landed on her chin and her cheek, she scooped up with a finger and into her mouth. Yes, she probably was acting a porn scene - but why not? She wanted to and I was astonished and excited to be a part of it.
'Pound me.' That was Ss. Simple, to the point. And did I ever? - pulling her legs up onto my shoulders and folding her in half, the better to aim straight and deep into her cunt. I pounded her till she cried and screamed climax after climax. What did the neighbours think?
'Make my tits bounce.' Hmmmm... SH was a woman (like many I think) who not only can admit to enjoying robust fucking but sometimes like to walk on the 'dark side' a little. Would she be sore the next day? That was what she wanted - to feel truly fucked and to go on feeling it the next day. Later she told me it had worked!
FK knew what she liked but she was happy to let me choose. On more than one occasion her question to me was 'which do you want?'. Y'see, FK had allowed me to introduce her to anal sex. She loved it! And after that, very often when we fucked, FK would let me know she was ready for more, happily offering me the choice of which place I wanted to penetrate.
Dm also wanted something to touch her dark side. Something quite different. 'I'm a dirty evil slut and I need to be punished.' It was her most secret desire, something only once before hinted at when talking (she told me) to a girlfriend. many times I did spank her, too. She would be ordered to drop her trousers and underwear and lie over my lap. I would spank her brutally with my hand... and then she'd be so wet I'd finger her to orgasm. Oh how she enjoyed that reward. We bought her a paddle, too - a nice heavy, leather paddle. After that the beatings became more severe. Dm was always ready for them. On a couple of occasion she went to work the next day with huge, dark bruises all over her bottom. She confessed she loved the experience, a reminder of the previous night and a secret victory over the other 'straights' in her workplace.
Thanks to those wonderful women for such sexy memories.
Why this blog?
One day I will no longer be able to recall all the wonderful women I encountered and the wonderful things they shared with me. So this blog is my strategy to remember into the future. On top of that I wanted some way, even something anonymous, to acknowledge and thank those wonderful women. Some of them might recognise themselves her.
For everyone else, I hope you enjoy the insights I plan to give into human sexuality - most especially the amazing sexuality and bravery of the women who've taken me into their beds over these many years.
For everyone else, I hope you enjoy the insights I plan to give into human sexuality - most especially the amazing sexuality and bravery of the women who've taken me into their beds over these many years.
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