Sometimes women can be shy creatures. And sometimes they just want something so bad, or are so willing to please, that they overcome that reserve and really enjoy themselves.
Given the way sex is treated in many western societies, and the stereotypes women are told they should match I can truly say I am surprised, as I look back, at the number of woman I've known who are (or were) so open about their sexuality that they were happy to engage in a threesome.
Sometimes they wanted to be the centre of attention. Other times they were more interested in watching two other people fuck. A few times they didn't know what to expect but decided they wanted to experience something as kinky and adventurous as a threesome.
My experience has been that the secret to a really good threesome (or moresome) is to have at the centre a really strong couple. If at least two people in the play have a solid understanding and know what they want and what works then its so much easier for everyone to know what their roles are. That helps ensuring no-one feels left out.
Mostly I've played it so that one woman is the centre of attention. Then the other two people know their job is to focus on her. If one person in the couple gets a little less as a result then they both know that's something that can be taken care of later, perhaps after the 'third' has left.
With KT it worked a bit differently. KT had two male lovers (one was me) and she sometimes found it hard to choose between us. So one time she hit on the perfectly sensible idea of having us both at the same time! We two men met for the first time that evening. But there was still a shared understanding between us. KT had asked for the the threesome so she was our focus.
Both of us made sure to lavish attention on her. From time to time one would 'sit out' - like when I gave her a good hard spanking. But then I sent her to crawl over to him and show her her red backside and ask permission to suck his cock.
From that point on there was barely a time when she wasn't being ravaged by both men - licked, sucked, fucked, fingered, cocks in two holes at once, cumming over and over and each time barely allowed to get her breath back before two over-horny and excited males were pushing her to the edge yet again.
Most of my experiences came at the suggestion or request of a woman. Sure, a few times I raised the subject and was met with responses from keen interest to firm disinterest. But I am sure half or more of my threesome experiences came about because one or more of the women involved wanted it to.
Lb was a great example. She happily let it be known she wanted to play with one or the other of us (that is, me and my SO of the time). it only took a gentle comment that we 'play together' for her to ramp up and offer to let us both have her. And we did, more than once. We pushed her further than she had expected but that was OK - she had agreed we could both have her and so we took the opportunity to explore our own pleasures. And because we were so focussed on her it was probably easier for Lb to play along. She was even a little embarrassed to admit she liked anal but we refused to take no for an answer and she duly received a pretty hefty arse fuck - which she loved by the way!
AW was warm on the idea the first time I brought it up. I'd done so as a kind of test, to see how open-minded she was and how far she might eventually go. But I should have known better because AW certainly does love sex and plenty of it. Another man, another woman - AW loved both ideas and all the experiences she had. Though, as she was a somewhat passive lover, there was the issue of finding a third person who would be happy to make her the centre of attention and not the other way around.
Some women are put-off by the idea that they'll be the centre of attention. Its because they assume that they'll be on display or have their performance judged. Its a bit unfortunate because the real point of making the woman the centre of attention is to make sure she has a great time. She's not being judged - the other two people judge themselves by how much excitement and pleasure they can give.
SL has confessed to me that she finds the idea of being watched while fucking 'humiliating' but also really exciting. For her the two are closely linked as SL loves the idea of submitting openly to a couple.
Some women really love the idea of being the centre of the threesome - especially if there's two cock on offer. KT was exactly like that. AW too. SL is a long distance friend but I know she harbours a massive desire to have two guys with big cocks 'force' her to pleasure them both.
And as I say, some like to watch and find a threesome an opportunity to 'perve' or have maybe something like a 'live porn show' with them as the audience. Dm was keen for that reason. Jw was the same. For them the thrill comes from watching another woman being properly fucked by a man - even better if its 'their' man. Its almost as if by watching her they are watching themselves, seeing and enjoying the reactions and the responses of the extra woman as they watch her get cock and, invariably, add a little pleasure of their own making.
Whatever the motivation, as a male who does his own share of perving and enjoying kinky, adventurous sexual fun, there's no beating the thrill of finding a woman who is ready and eager to play threeway - whether the 'third' is to be a woman or a man. Its a special and thrilling insight into that woman's sexuality. Its always a pleasure and a privilege to be allowed to be a part of her exploring or enjoying that part of her sexuality, being a part of it when she finds she can relax and 'expose' herself enough to be able to give or receive twice the usual pleasure.
I know some women will never be able to enjoy that experience, or even want it.
Buit those who do know, as I do, its a special thing to welcome a 'third' into their sex play.
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