Now I admit I am a kinky person who likes to explore a whole range of 'taboo' acts and so forth, a pervert I guess in the old school description. So early on I had a strong desire to experience and explore anal sex (from the position of the giver).
FK was the first women to ever allow me to explore and I think a lot of that had to do with the fact she was open-minded and very much loves sex! And also I think the fact I was a little older and she was prepared to let me guide her. (That's also a very sexy experience!) FK quickly discovered she loved anal, especially if she rubbed her clit at the same time and reached one of her explosive orgasms.
So I was hooked after that. But what about women apart from FK?
I recall some years ago I read a report that 15% (I think - it was a long time ago) of women enjoyed anal sex. Well, my observations are based on only a small sample. But my experience is the number who are prepared to try is closer to 50%.
Those who enjoy it and will be happy to try it again is more like 40% I have found. And women seem to have many different reasons for enjoying anal.
Good for people like me!
In my time I have had the experience of introducing anal sex to 7 women who were 'anal virgins'. Of those, one definitely didn't like it and only one said after a few attempts that she didn't really enjoy it. And I can understand cos I don't enjoy having my bottom poked either! Still, for someone like me that's a good strike rate. But there have been others who point blank refused *lol*
Dm actually asked me before I brought it up. She said she wanted to experience 'what the other half have'. She loved the feeling of being on hands and knees and being slowly fucked in her arse. While not really a submissive, Dm enjoyed the thrill of being 'used' in that way and the idea it was a 'dirty' 'slutty' taboo. She loved feeling me cum inside her bum.
AW didn't blink when I suggested it to her. Again, I think she felt I was more sexually experienced and could show her some wonderful pleasures. We did it that very first time I asked. She never orgasmed from anal but we could go for ages, slowly reaming her in the missionary position. She loved being filled and the sensations actually seemed to be almost gentle and relaxing for her.
Some women hate the sensation of being filled up - as if they need to go to the toilet. A couple have told me that sensation is what they enjoy most about anal sex.
CD almost prefers to have a cock in her bottom than her cunt. And there is no doubt she can cum just as easily from anal.
I suppose like a lot of things, sometimes anal takes a bit of practice before both people work out how best to enjoy it.
Ss took a long time. She really wanted to learn to enjoy anal but just wasn't able physically to cope with it. But in the end it took a few years of 'off and on' gentle stroking and licking. Now she loves having her arse fingered while her cunt is being licked. And she's now able to enjoy having a cock in her arse and being slowly fucked while her clit is being rubbed. She loves the orgasms but still finds them 'different'. Some women appreciate that aspect of anal but Ss might still need a little more time to get to that stage.
And of course there's a range of toys and other playthings that can make anal play and exploration that much more fun.
Anal is also a really great element of D/s play too. The idea of the submissive totally surrendering her body, the potential for feeling vulnerable and used, maybe a bit of humiliation. That's where butt plugs come into their own, being worn out in public for example. GS was one woman I knew who very much enjoyed being tasked to go about her daily chores or even to the office with a nice nice soft intruder wedged inside her bum.
Someone might like to write about the experience of being a male on the receiving end. It won't be me - sorry. When it comes to anal, even though I think more women enjoy it than might be expected, I have tried it once or twice and I know that, in my case, being the recipient is not thrill at all.
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